Awe... I'm sorry Dani. I can imagine how worried you are when things aren't quite right. It's good that you recognize these things though! How are the water params?

As far as the food goes... I've heard many ADF keepers offer Tadpole Bites. You may want to presoak them for 5 mins first in treated tap water or siphoned out tank water before offering it to him.

Barring any illness... maybe it's possible he IS missing his friend??? I don't keep ADF's, but I do know they do okay on their own... but he may just be used to the attention of another ADF.

And please do not be hard on yourself! The fact that you're trying to help him shows that you ARE a good froggie mom!

Michele