I know what you mean and feel - I've been there too. So tough to be in a helpless situation.

Don't give up though! Find a healthy supply of ADFs that don't have Chytrid (a new and deadly fungal infection to them) and be sure to learn and ask questions here about their care because if it works out, they will be one of the greatest pets that you have ever had. Of all the aquatic creatures that I have kept, ADFs have brought the most joy to my fish/frogkeeping!

Take care and hang in there,

Barb