Update...I friend told me about a guy who works at a fish med lab with years of experance with fish and diagnosing illnesses who used to post at one of the betta sites, she said he takes ph calls. So I thought what the heck Ill see what he has to say. Called told him the situation. Right after I told him the symptoms he said "Gill flukes" and said to go to a pet store and get Prazi-Pro. Then went on to recomend a triple sofa drug (as a secondary med)they sold at his company (ahhh so thats why he does this for free? The med might be too pricey for me with express shipping etc and the time invloved) Anyway Im just putting this out there to see what others think. Maybe Prazi-Pro with M2? As I was telling someone yesterday, Im asking a lot of people what to do because this one has been hard to diagnose, posting on several sites, have several people offering me advice, most seam VERY knowaldgeble on fish illnesses and experanced in diagnoses but the prob is I get a lot of different advice. Like I said yesterday I feel like Im left tossing a coin to decide how to save Jasmines life. Its really stressful. I truly think different methods have been equaly sucsessful for different fish but what to I chose for Jazzy. And when I didnt take one persons advice they seamed offended. ....sigh..... All I can do is listen to what people say and why they are sugesting something and hope and pray (been doing a lot of this!) and make a choice. So as confusing as it ends up being, I want as much advice (with the thoughts behind it) as I can get to make the best choice for Jazzy. Im sure Im not alone in this situation. So to everyone please offer your advice and the thoughts behind it (why you think its right) and I will do my best for Jazzy. Be paitent with me Im learning. If I make a mistake I keep going. Im not giving up on Jasmine! : ) I truly adroe her. Thanks for everyones advice. I appericate it soo much!!! Sorry about the spelling, no time to check it.